Free Write 2.7.12

When I am in a conversation and I am not listening, I feel terrible.  While not intentional, if i have a lot of things on my mind, I will sometimes wonder while the other person is trying to tell me something.  Embarrassed by my lack of respect, I pretend as if I was listening, however, I am not fully able to respond.  I try to be vague with my replies, and do not give them the feedback that they deserve.  However, when I am actively listening, I am moved by their stories or conversation and I understand what that person is feeling.  I am able to give advice or appropriate responses.  They are then much more appreciative of my answers.